There is an adage associated with admissions which states, "The thicker the folder, the thinner the applicant." Put another way, for those people who read reams and reams of applications (or even for those who read simply a relative few), there is nothing more off-putting than receiving letter after letter about an obviously mediocre candidate describing him or her in terms worthy of a Nobel laureate. And, to compound the ignominy, to have these letters solicited from people who barely know the candidate's name let alone anything more personal about them.

Politicians, celebrities, sports figures and the like are all high on the list of families seeking a bump in the admissions process and are therefore in high demand when letters of recommendation are sought. I am telling you now to refrain from this practice! Unless the Sultan of Brunei is a relative and has intimate knowledge of the hardships you've faced or challenges you've overcome, don't ask him to write on your behalf. And, even if he is one of the family, unless there's a request for a character reference, do not substitute his testimonial for a recommendation from a teacher who knows you well and can speak to your intellectual curiosity, classroom dominance or nimble one-of-a-kind sense of humor.

What I am driving at here is that enrollment committees seek the truth about candidates as best they can construct it. Naturally you as the aspirant have the most to say about who you are and why said institution should esteem your presence in their fold. Therefore, although there are few generalities associated with the admissions process, one stands out as irrefutable: be honest, straightforward and genuine in your presentation of yourself and the rest will take care of itself. Let me explain.

Occasionally we lose sight of exactly what school or college is really all about; that is, academics! Sure there are lots of other activities associated with attending educational institutions but their primary function involves imparting essential, critical knowledge to the generally unformed and unwashed youth of today in the hopes of graduating them to a life of purpose, service and benefit to themselves and mankind. The rest is trappings.

What matters most in admissions is success in the most rigorous curriculum for which you qualify and a standout showing on standardized testing. Nothing, I repeat, nothing can change this reality. So, our most important task will be to soberly, objectively assess our academic performance as it relates to an institution's profile and make our selections accordingly. Personal statements can be compelling especially as they emphasize a unique aspect of your character or point out something positive not otherwise apparent in your application; teacher recommendations can make persuasive arguments as to why you deserve to be seriously considered as a force in the classroom; athletic, creative or artistic talent can be highlighted especially where these traits are valued and exceptional service can be touted as it describes the potential contribution you will make to your new community BUT, there is no substitute for the highest achievement in the most demanding courses accompanied by stellar performance on entrance exams. That's just the way it is.

So, get organized, review and fine-tune your list, carefully complete your applications with attention to spelling, grammar and accuracy, request transcripts and teacher recommendations early, respect deadlines, track your progress and be sure to follow up on any requests for further information. This is not a terribly complicated or confusing process but the onus is on you to manage it efficiently and well. And so you shall!